It may sound funny, but although I spend every waking second with my children, I often wish I had more time with them. Let me explain as you scratch your head…. haha Most of my moments are very child-filled and child-centered, it’s true. However, it’s very rare that I have focused, one on one time with them – especially the older two girls. This is something I’ve had a strong desire to change lately. While I do plenty of things for my children, I want them to have my TIME and know I love and care about each one individually. I want to make time to talk to them and listen to them without a hundred little interruptions and distractions.
I was trying to figure out where I could work on this. The babies’ morning naps are fazing out or that would have been the obvious choice. For a while, it seemed the only choice was to somehow escape the house with just one child. But the only feasible option that wouldn’t interrupt bedtimes was taking a kid out for supper. This just wasn’t going to happen for us, especially not as frequently as I wanted that time with them. We almost never eat out as is and it would be at the expense of time with Daddy, which we never like doing. It was kind of difficult for me to find an alternative plan. Although I love my children so much, it’s easy to selfishly crave, and feel entitled to, those less constant high needs moments like afternoon Quiet Time.
After about a week of pondering this dilemma, I finally came up with my idea. I’ll spend one hour of one Quiet Time once a week with one of my big girls. Did you follow that? haha One hour is about the amount of completely uninterrupted time I can typically count on. Plus, there are often legit things I have to get done while the kids are in Quiet Time, so this leaves me a little wiggle room. With visits and shopping days earlier in the week, I am thinking the Mama Time days will usually be Thursday or Friday depending what else is going on.
I told the girls about this plan and they were SO excited!!! They started planning everything we would do together right away. haha It was really cute and definitely made me want to start asap. Abby and I decided Evelyn could have the first turn since she is littler.
Evie was SUPER giddy when her day came up! She grabbed my hand, chattering a mile a minute, and we headed downstairs for Petshop of course!!
We were playing a camping game and decided to make some (really rough) makeshift tents. They were a hit for Evie! We also made some kleen-ex casts for all the broken legs that kept happening. It was a rough day in Petshop land!
I do like Petshop, but after a half hour or so, it was time to switch things up a bit. haha I suggested we do some crafting with GLUE and SCISSORS and Evie was instantly sold. She doesn’t have access to those too frequently and was pretty pumped. She did quite a bit of gluing while I worked on a card for Daddy. He recently found out he passed yet another actuarial exam, and we are all super duper proud of him!!! Only one more and a few other things left!! WOO!
We had a great time together and Evelyn was beaming about it the rest of the day. I’m excited for another special time with my Little Peanut in a couple weeks. 🙂 See Evie’s smuggest possible expression below. ❤